Separation is a significant life event that requires careful planning and understanding of the legal landscape. Navigating legal separation and being well-prepared can make a substantial difference. How to separate ? What steps do you take to prepare for it? We put together our brief guide on essential legal aspects and provide practical advice to help you through the separation process.

Understanding the Legal Framework

In Australia, separation is recognized under the Family Law Act 1975. This act governs the legal aspects of separation, including property division, parenting, property and support arrangements. It’s important to note that Australia follows a no-fault divorce system, meaning the court does not consider the reasons for the separation. Consulting with a family law solicitor can provide clarity on these legalities.

Meeting the Separation Requirements

To file for divorce in Australia, you must be separated for at least 12 months and 1 day. You can be separated while still living under the same roof, but you must provide evidence of this arrangement. Understanding these requirements is essential to ensure that your application for divorce is processed smoothly.

Seeking Legal Advice Early

Consulting with a family lawyer early can help you understand your rights and obligations. A lawyer can guide you through the complexities of property settlements, spousal maintenance, and parenting arrangements. Hiring a lawyer early can help protect your rights and interests. A family law solicitor can guide you through the legal aspects of separation, including property division, arrangements concerning children, and support arrangements.

Organizing Your Finances

Financial stability is critical during separation.

Start by:

Listing assets and liabilities: Document all joint and individual assets and debts.

Creating a budget: Outline your income and expenses to understand your financial needs post-separation.

Opening separate accounts: Consider opening individual bank accounts to manage your finances independently.

Financial preparation is crucial. By assessing your assets and liabilities, creating a budget, and opening separate accounts, you can ensure that you have a clear understanding of your financial situation and can manage your finances independently.

Considering Mediation

Mediation can be a less adversarial way to resolve disputes. The Family Law Act encourages mediation to settle issues related to property and children before going to court. Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) practitioners (otherwise known as mediators) can assist in this process. A mediator can help you and your partner reach agreements on various issues, potentially avoiding a lengthy court battle.

Making Parenting Arrangements

If you have children, their well-being is likely to be your top priority. Develop a parenting plan that outlines parenting arrangements, visitation schedules, and how you will handle holidays and special occasions. The court requires proper arrangements for children under 18 before granting a divorce. By focusing on the needs of your children and creating a detailed parenting plan, you can ensure that their well-being is prioritized during the separation process.

Documenting Everything

Keep detailed records of all communications and agreements with your spouse. This documentation can be crucial if disputes arise later. By maintaining thorough records, you can protect yourself and ensure that you have evidence to support your claims if necessary.

 Taking Care of Your Emotional Well-being

Separation is not just a legal process but an emotional one, too.

Consider:

Counselling: Individual or couples counselling can provide support and help you process your emotions.

Support networks: Lean on friends, family, or support groups for emotional support.

Taking care of your emotional well-being is essential during the separation process. By seeking counselling and relying on your support networks, you can navigate the emotional challenges of separation more effectively.

Staying Informed and Flexible

Laws and circumstances can change, so stay informed about your rights and be prepared to adapt your plans as needed. By staying informed and flexible, you can ensure that you are ready for any changes that may arise during the separation process.

Conclusion

Separation is a complex and challenging process, but you can navigate it more smoothly with careful planning and preparation. By understanding the legal framework, meeting the separation requirements, seeking legal advice early, organizing your finances, considering mediation, making parenting arrangements, documenting everything, taking care of your emotional well-being, and staying informed and flexible, you can approach separation with a clearer mind and a more organized strategy. This brief guide aims to provide the basic information you need to ensure a smoother transition for everyone involved.

How Can We Help You?

We have wealth of experience dealing with separation and divorce matters. We apply our experience and knowledge to guide you through difficult times and help resolve parenting issues as quickly, amicably and effectively as possible. We will:

  • provide you with the advice on legal aspects of separation, property settlement and parenting and will answer any questions you may have;
  • will negotiate the best possible outcome that would work for your family;
  • work on terms of an agreement to formalise the achieved compromise between you and the other party;
  • file for Consent Orders; or
  • represent you in court proceedings if there is no agreement.

For more information on separation, parenting orders and property settlement contact us on info@consortfamilylaw.com or call (02) 8003 3013.

Who Else Can Help?

The Police

Call 000 if you’re in immediate danger

There are a few services and support organisations you can contact in a crisis situation. A range of 24-hour family and domestic violence counselling line services for anyone who has experienced, or is at risk of, family and domestic violence and/or sexual assault.

1800RESPECT

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1800 737 732

Men’s Referral Service

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1300 766 491

MensLine Australia

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1300 789 978

 Lifeline

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13 11 14

Kids Help Line

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1800 55 1800

ElderAbuse Help Line

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1300 651 192

 

Assistance in Situations of Financial Abuse

Please note that your bank is there to support you. Australian banks developed  Preventing and Responding to Financial Abuse Industry Guideline. A few banks offer support ranging from advice on how to protect your finances in the situation of separation to grants for victims of domestic abuse. Please check with your bank how they can help by clicking the link:

ANZ

COMMONWEALTH BANK

WESTPAC

NAB